A Needle to the Heart: the Woven Life of Italian Women


Here we explore the experiences of Italian American women through needlework, presented by IAMLA.

By Marianna Gatto, ISDA Contributing Editor

It was 1918. The influenza pandemic was ravaging the world and, by the time it subsided, some 50 million people had lost their lives. In Italy, which had one of the highest influenza mortality rates in Europe, an estimated 600,000 Italians died. Three-year-old Giuseppina Fico was too young to understand the virus that took her mother in the prime of her life.

Red Cross Emergency Ambulance Station during the influenza pandemic of 1918

The Fico family had been poor for generations, but the loss of its matriarch made life all the more bitter. Giuseppina’s father was a sharecropper who barely earned enough to feed his children. At the tender age of six, Giuseppina was helping her father in the fields and apprenticing in needlework.

Italian women and girls in southern Italy, at the turn of the twentieth century

Needlework was an essential part of Italian society. It was through needlework that young Italian women demonstrated that they had been raised properly, that they were ready for adulthood, and that they would make good wives and mothers.

By age ten, Giuseppina had begun assembling her corredo, or the linen portion of her dowry. Having a corredo was critical for a woman, and those lacking even a basic corredo were considered undesirable.

Detail of Giuseppina’s “buon riposo” matrimonial bed sheet

Among the items Giuseppina created for her corredo was a white matrimonial bedsheet with elegant cutwork. “Buon riposo,” it reads, Italian for “rest well.”

Giuseppina would eventually marry a man from her village, and, shortly after World War II, she immigrated to America with her husband and children. The “buon riposo” bed sheet was among the items she brought with her on the transatlantic voyage. Giuseppina settled in New York, where she found employment in the garment industry making luxurious apparel for retailers, including Saks Fifth Avenue. Her needlework skills helped put food on the table.

Giuseppina Fico D’Alisa, photographed later in life.

Within one generation, life changed dramatically for the family. Giuseppina’s daughter, Rose, did not follow her mother into the factory. She instead earned a Ph.D. from Columbia University and enjoyed a successful career as a biochemist.

The “buon riposo” sheet that Giuseppina had sewed in 1925 remained in the family until 2013, when Rose donated it to the Italian American Museum of Los Angeles (IAMLA). It was this sheet that inspired the museum’s latest temporary exhibition: Woven Lives: Exploring Women’s Needlework from the Italian Diaspora,which opened January 29.

Partial view of IAMLA’s gallery II

Woven Lives began as a mere musing in 2019. That summer, IAMLA staff, with the assistance of an intern funded through the Getty Marrow Undergraduate Internship program, were cataloging items that the IAMLA had acquired for its collection. As our intern, Therese, methodically photographed Giuseppina’s “buon riposo” bed sheet, a discussion ensued about the hardship Giuseppina had endured.

“Wouldn’t it be neat to do an exhibition of these linens one day, an exhibit that examines the story behind each piece and the women who made them?” I wondered aloud. Our staff liked the concept and we added it to our list of future exhibitions.

A few months later, my colleague, Francesca Guerrini, purchased a copy of Embroidered Stories: Interpreting Women’s Domestic Needlework from the Italian Diaspora, a collection of stories edited by Joseph Sciorra, Director of Academic and Cultural Programs at Calandra Institute, and Edvige Giunta, a Sicilian-American writer, educator, and literary critic. We had worked with Joseph in the past on other programs and shared the idea of doing a needlework exhibition idea with him. He graciously agreed to serve as the advisor on a grant proposal we were in the process of writing to California Humanities.

Several months later, the news we had been waiting for arrived: California Humanities had selected our proposal to be funded!

The IAMLA published a call for needlework, asking the public to share pieces created by Italian and Italian American women that had interesting stories attached to them. Much to our delight, and thanks to organizations like the ISDA, which helped publicize the call, people all over the nation responded. We received submissions from Pennsylvania, Michigan, Florida, New York, Massachusetts, and California, as well as from Italy and Australia.

The IAMLA’s Francesca Guerrini examines a woven coperta made in the Ricami Norvegesi (Norwegian embroidery) style by Filomena Nuccia Di Tomaso when she was 15 years old. Filomena brought it to the United States when she immigrated in 1928.

Then came Covid-19 and life changed overnight. The museum went virtual, presenting dozens of programs and resources, from concerts and lectures to curricula and culinary educational videos. The pandemic presented an array of challenges, not to mention financial woes. We canceled, postponed, and rescheduled exhibitions, and it was anyone’s guess when life would return to something resembling normality. When the IAMLA was finally able to open for in-person visits in June 2021, we decided that Woven Lives would be the first temporary exhibition that the museum would present in the quasi-post-pandemic world. 

Detail of a crocheted tablecloth made by Maria Antonia Cortese, the American-born daughter of immigrants from Lucca Sicula, Sicily, who settled in Colorado. On the heels of the influenza pandemic, Maria’s family lost everything in a devastating flood, and shortly thereafter, her father died. Years passed, and Maria’s prospects for having a family of her own grew dim. At age 31, Maria married a Calabrese immigrant laborer and, during the darkest days of the Great Depression, she gave birth to three sons in a span of four years. She provided her sons stability in the face of her husband’s abuse, alcoholism, frequent absences, and economic scarcity. In the evenings, Maria would pray while crocheting. Through her silent, moving meditation, she created beautiful objects the family would never otherwise be able to own. In 1946, at Maria’s urging, the family relocated to Los Angeles, where Maria worked in a garment factory. Maria, despite her limited formal education, was truly a visionary. She encouraged her family to purchase vacant lots in downtown Los Angeles, where the city’s skyscrapers now stand. “One day, people will need a place to park their cars,” she would say, as they would chuckle and shake their heads.

All the exhibitions that we have presented at the IAMLA have been original to the museum. The process of creating them is labor intensive. We oversee every detail, from the content and images to the design and programming. I become so engrossed in the research, writing, and curation that the exhibitions dominate my conversations outside of work and sometimes even appear in my dreams.

Crocheted image of the Madonna made by Maria Castaldi, pictured right, who was born in Molise, Italy, in 1942. At age 18 months, Maria contracted polio, which left her quadriplegic, wheelchair-bound, and unable to use her hands. Although Maria never attended school and is unable to read, her mother taught her how to crochet at a young age. By using one finger and holding the crochet hook with her mouth, she creates beautiful and intricate designs ranging from small doilies to bedspreads.

Woven Lives struck a chord with the public. We received over 200 submissions. There were many fine examples of embroidery, lace, crochet, knitting, needlepoint, and sewing. Dozens of different stitches and techniques were represented. Much of the needlework was over a hundred years old, and the longer I spent with the women’s creations, the more they contrasted with the mass-produced goods of the modern era, both philosophically and aesthetically.

Born in Sicily in 1892, Benedetta Militello Missale (pictured with her children) is among the women whose work is featured in the exhibition. Benedetta immigrated to the United States in 1921, and to help support her family, she worked in a New York City sweatshop and embroidered elegant linens, which her friend then sold to wealthy families. Benedetta lived to be 99 years old and continued to embroider for family members until her death.

However, it was the stories behind the pieces — the experiences of the women responsible for the needlework — that humbled and inspired me the most.

It was easy to get lost in the photographs of the women, studying their faces and the emotions conveyed in their expressions. I realized that the pieces had found us as much as we had found them.

Most of the contributors to the exhibition were women, a point that illustrates the important role that women often play as the custodians of family history, material culture, and memories.

Some of the contributors to the exhibition and I at the opening reception.

Woven Lives chronicles the evolution of needlework, tracing its origins in Italy and examining its significance in Italian life. From the cradle to the grave, needlework was omnipresent in Italian society. Upon women’s arrival in the United States, the significance of needlework changed. Italian women, like Giuseppina, translated their skills into wage-earning employment. This was often their first taste of economic independence, or, at the very least, one of the first times they were compensated financially for their labor.

Crocheted bikini made by Paolina DiCristofaro Villani, pictured center. Born in Molise, Italy, Paolina married Giovanni Villani in 1929 and the couple had two children. Like many Italian men, Giovanni left his homeland in search of prosperity with the intent of sending for his family. World War II soon broke out, however, and for more than six years, the family remained divided across two continents. Neither war nor the absence of her husband deterred Paolina, nor did her toughness cease when the family was reunited in the United States. Paolina went to work in a New York purse factory, but she also cooked, maintained the home, and made clothing for her children, 11 grandchildren, and 19 great-grandchildren. When her granddaughter graduated from law school, Paolina sewed the first suits that she wore as an attorney. Paolina lived to be 102 years old. She continued crocheting until the final years of her life, even when her eyesight deteriorated, and, eventually, practiced her craft using feeling and muscle memory alone.
A section of the exhibition dedicated to wedding traditions

 

Whereas needlework in Italy had been a slow, meticulous process — an art form that emphasized quality — employers in the United States favored mass production, quantity, and speed. The women’s experiences in the nation’s factories, including the horrific working conditions of the era and the tragedies of unfettered capitalism, led some women to become activists. They participated in the labor struggles that shaped modern America and helped give birth to many of the rights that we take for granted today.

Visitors in the section of the exhibition that explores Italian American women’s participation in the labor movement.

As the daughters of immigrant women achieved upward mobility and as consumerism became the norm following World War II, many young women chose not to learn needlework, preferring more “American” and less labor-intensive activities. The traditional Italian corredo, items that women had historically made themselves or that had been made by kin, was gradually replaced by the modern wedding registry — toasters, stand mixers, and the like. Needlework was increasingly perceived as a vestige of the past.

A corredo pillow sham made by the Distaso family in Puglia, Italy, in 1929, for their niece, Maria. Fashioned in the punto tagliato, or Italian cutwork tradition, the words Maria D (for Maria DiStaso) and ricordo (memory) are embroidered on the sham.

Yet some women maintained these traditions, which not only endure, but are also being rediscovered.

Teresa Girillo D’Agostaro, right, with her mother, Mary Zummo Girillo, and daughter, Lucia D’Agostaro, doing needlework at their Burbank, California home in 2021. Woven Lives features needlework from four generations of the family.

As we began installing the more than 100 pieces featured in the exhibition, it occurred to me that the Italian American craftswomen who created the needlework — most of whom have long since passed on — would never have imagined that their work would one day be showcased in a museum. There is little historical record of these women; they never achieved fame or fortune. Their legacy is in their perseverance, their love for others, their wisdom, and their resourcefulness.

Cecilia Scottini was born in Los Angeles to Italian immigrants at the turn of the twentieth century and learned the art of being resourceful early in life. Cecilia, pictured front row right, saved the twine that butchers tied around packages of meat and used it to create the crocheted pot scrubber (pictured far right). She also saved sugar and flour sacks, which she soaked in water, applied a whitening agent to remove the printing, and then cut the fabric, finished the edges, and added a decorative crocheted border to make elegant handkerchiefs (pictured left). Cecilia also had an eye for style. She hand strung beads and affixed them to a band to create dainty pink garters for her stockings (above). She also crocheted this drawstring purse with the initial “S” for Scottini at the center in the 1910s.

From the simple to the ornate, the utilitarian to the sacred, the objects showcased in Woven Lives reveal the sensibilities, hopes, beliefs, and perspectives of the various generations of Italian American women who fabricated them.

A section of the exhibition that examines religious needlework. The banner at the center was made by the women of Our Lady of Pompei Church ca. 1930. The tabernacle curtains on each side were made by the Missionary Sisters of the Sacred Heart (the religious order founded by Mother Cabrini), and date from the 1940s to the 1950s.

By exploring the stories behind these handcrafted pieces, we gain a richer appreciation not only for the experiences of their creators but for how traditions survive, change, disappear, and reemerge in immigrant and transplanted communities. We hope you will have the opportunity to visit the exhibition, which continues at the IAMLA until October.

Karen Nuremburg Sonner, a Los Angeles-based nurse, poses next to the dress that her mother and grandmother made for her as a child. Karen’s mother, Marjorie, sewed the dress and her grandmother, Lucy Scarcella, did the embroidery.

Marianna Gatto is the executive director and cofounder of the Italian American Museum of Los Angeles (IAMLA), a historian and author with more than a decade of experience in public history, non-profit leadership, museums, and education.

 

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